why you tetiba pakai tudung?

I got that question from unknown , I get it like all the time. So dear people I shall answer your question. How , why , and everything else. First of , id like to clarify that I was not forced to wear my tudung but it was more like encouraged by family members. My grandparents have been asking me and my mum to wear tudung for the longest time , we were the two only ones in our family (my mum's side clan) not wearing tudung. Mummy and I got lots of talks from the elderly asking when were going to wear and telling us all sorts of stuff. Our answer every single time was "when i'm ready" , mummy told herself every year she gets older that she will wear tudung but it never did happen. Finally my parent went for the hajj and this time mummy promised herself that when she comes back she would wear tudung , this time it happened for real. I guess seeing all those magical stuff at Mekkah and Madinah made her realize that we should do what Allah tells us to. Lets me tell you something when you say "when i'm ready" thats complete bullshit. You'll never be ready. And so the night my parents came back from the hajj we went out to eat at Muhibah and my dad asked my mummy , me and my sister to wear tudung. He said just to test je. We were all like okay! Went to starbucks for coffee after that and met with the friends , till about 3am. By 10pm my sister had already taken of her tudung , it was hot -___- Anyway mummy and daddy said that it should be a permanent look and apparently I can pull of the tudung look without looking weird they just asked me to keep it on and I agreed. My grandma was definitely proud of me of how I finally wore my tudung after years of persuasions. So there you go , you've got my story. Some people believe that if you wear tudung you can't be hip , stylish and you have to wear baggy clothings etc. I don't believe in that so much , I think as long as your covered its okay. Look at me for instance I still wear body hugging dresses and I don't wear baggy clothes. People also say if you wear tudung you can't be pretty , I don't think i'm pretty but like I try looking decent if you know what I mean. I still follow trends its just that i'm covered. Do I have any regrets? The fact that I put my tudung on , nope. I'm glad I did it , what if some where along the way I died and never got the chance to wear it? What if I din't put it on then , maybe I would never ever put it on. But honestly sometimes I do get jealous of my friends showing of their pretty hair and curves etc. I tell my mum this stuff , she just tells me , this is temporary life. Your doing it for yourself to get pahala. For mummy and daddy so we don't have to tanggung the dosa and for Allah cause he told us to.

xx , thats the story kthanks bye (: